Complaining on behalf of a relative or friend

Can you complain to a bank or insurer for an elderly parent or a friend? Yes, and it costs nothing. Here is who can act for someone else, how long the firm has to reply, when the free Financial Ombudsman Service can step in, and what it can award.

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You can complain to a bank, insurer, lender or pension firm on behalf of a relative or friend, and you do not need to be a lawyer or pay anyone to do it. The Financial Ombudsman Service says a friend, family member or support worker can help with a complaint or speak on someone's behalf1. The service is free for consumers, and bringing a complaint to it will not cost anything2.

You can complain to a bank, insurer, lender or pension firm on behalf of a relative or friend, and you do not need to be a lawyer or pay anyone to do it. The Financial Ombudsman Service says a friend, family member or support worker can help with a complaint or speak on someone's behalf1. The service is free for consumers, and bringing a complaint to it will not cost anything2.

The process is the same whether the complaint is yours or someone else's. You complain to the business first, and for most complaints it has up to eight weeks to consider it1. If it does not send a final response within eight weeks, or the person is unhappy with the response, the complaint can go to the ombudsman3. The ombudsman can award up to £455,000 for complaints referred on or after 1 April 2026 about acts or omissions on or after 1 April 20194, and up to £445,000 against a still-operating adviser or company5.

What you cannot do is act as if the money were yours. A third-party mandate lets you operate someone's bank account, but it cannot be transferred to another account or bank6. For decisions beyond day-to-day banking, a power of attorney is the usual route, and the ombudsman has specific rules for complaints brought by attorneys7.

Complain to the business first: eight weeks for a final response

Every complaint starts with the firm. The Financial Ombudsman Service states that before bringing a complaint to it, a person complains to the company involved, and that a complaint can be brought to it after eight weeks without a final response or if the response is unsatisfactory9. For most complaints, a business has up to 8 weeks to consider a complaint1. Which? puts the same deadline plainly: after a complaint is made, the firm has eight weeks to respond10. Citizens Advice says the company must give a final response within 8 weeks3.

That eight-week clock applies across the financial world. A lease or hire agreement complaint must be answered within eight weeks11. Where a firm referred you to a lender, the complaint goes to the firm that referred you, which must give a final response within eight weeks12. A claims management company has to give its final response within eight weeks13. A credit union has eight weeks to investigate and give a final response14.

The final response letter matters because it sets out what happens next. It will include details of the outcome of the complaint and how to take the complaint further if the person remains unhappy1. Keep that letter: it carries the deadline for the next step.

If the firm does not reply within eight weeks, or the person disagrees with the response, the complaint can go to the ombudsman3. The same rule applies to complaints about a business asking for repayment of a debt, where the ombudsman looks at each case individually to find a fair outcome, taking account of the relevant rules and guidance produced by the regulator, any relevant law and industry good practice, and the overall facts and circumstances of the complaint15.

Taking the complaint to the Financial Ombudsman Service

A friend or family member can help with a complaint or speak on the person's behalf.

The ombudsman can look at complaints from consumers, and also from microenterprises and small and medium-sized businesses16. For debt collecting complaints, the person who has been asked to make payment is the one who can complain15. For an ISA, the account holder can bring a complaint about the ISA9. The same principle runs through savings endowments, personal pensions, mortgages, unaffordable lending, goods and services bought on credit, car finance commission, power of attorney cases and complaints involving gambling-related harm17.

You do not have to be the account holder to help. The ombudsman says you can ask someone else to help with the complaint or speak on the person's behalf, and this might be a friend, family member or support worker1. Where attorneys have been appointed jointly and severally, the ombudsman can accept a complaint brought by one or more of the attorneys, which means it is up to the attorneys to decide whether to act together or as individuals7.

The complaint itself goes through the ombudsman's complaint form. If you are considering using AI to help complete the form, the ombudsman asks you to read its guidelines on using AI before you start24. Those guidelines say to avoid entering personal information you would not want shared, such as health or banking information, to use AI only to help organise information or put it clearly, and to check the resulting text carefully1.

You don't need to pay a claims company or lawyer

The ombudsman states plainly that you don't need to pay anyone to represent you, for example, a lawyer or claims management company1. Unlike a court, you generally don't need anyone to represent you, and if you would prefer, the ombudsman can talk to a member of your family, a friend or someone else25. You don't need a lawyer or anyone else to represent you26.

This matters because a paid representative takes a cut. Where a personal representative acts instead of a professional representative such as a solicitor or claims management company, there is no fee, and the claimant gets all the compensation due27. The same principle applies to the Financial Services Compensation Scheme, which sets out how a personal representative can act without a fee27.

The ombudsman's own funding model explains why the service is free at the point of use. It is free for consumers28. Bringing a complaint is straightforward and won't cost you anything20. The service is free and easy to use17.

How the ombudsman decides and what it can award: up to £455,000

The ombudsman looks at each case on its facts. For debt collection complaints, it looks at each case individually to find a fair outcome, taking account of the relevant rules and guidance produced by the regulator, any relevant law and industry good practice, and the overall facts and circumstances of the complaint15. That approach runs across the complaints it handles.

The award limits are set out in the rules. The ombudsman can award up to £455,000 for complaints referred on or after 1 April 2026 about acts or omissions on or after 1 April 20194. Where an adviser or company is still operating and gave poor advice, compensation can reach a maximum of £445,000, plus interest5. The UK's Financial Ombudsman Service can award £455,0004.

Separately from the main award, the ombudsman can order compensation for distress and inconvenience of up to £1,5008. In one case study, the ombudsman awarded £8,000 overall because of the extreme level of impact caused to both policy holders over many years29.

The ombudsman's decisions are not a lottery. It publishes how it makes decisions, and its final decisions are legally binding if accepted by the complainant30. If the complainant accepts the final decision, it becomes legally binding for both parties31. Final determinations, once accepted by the complainant, are binding on both the complainant and the respondent firm32.

Accepting a final decision and what happens to the money

The decision only binds the firm if the person accepts it. The ombudsman's final decisions are legally binding if accepted by the complainant30. If the complainant accepts the final decision, it becomes legally binding for both parties31. Final determinations, once accepted by the complainant, are binding on both the complainant and the respondent firm32.

If the person does not accept the decision, they are not bound by it, and neither is the firm. That leaves the dispute where it was, and the person can consider other routes. What they cannot do is appeal an ombudsman's final decision to another ombudsman or to court just because they disagree with it25. The ombudsman's process is meant to be the end of the road for the complaint itself.

On the money, the tax position depends on what the payment is. Where a student loan overpayment is refunded, interest is paid at the same rate as it is charged to the account and is tax free33. In a payday loan refund complaint, the compensation can include the interest the payday loan company added to the loan amount, charges added if the loan could not be repaid on time, and an extra 8% interest if the complaint goes to the Financial Ombudsman Service34. Where HMRC processes a repayment claim, it may check the claim in detail later, and if it thinks relief was not justified, the relief must be returned and interest may be charged35.

How long the person has to refer a complaint

The final response letter carries the deadline. The usual window is six months from that letter, and the letter itself tells the person how to take the complaint further1. If the deadline passes, the ombudsman can still look at the complaint, but it will ask the company whether it agrees the complaint can be investigated further3. That is not a guarantee, so it is worth checking the letter rather than assuming the chance has gone.

Other ombudsman schemes run to different clocks. For a council complaint, you normally need to contact the ombudsman within 12 months of realising that the council has done something wrong36. Ombudsman schemes generally have conditions including time limits for making a complaint and limits on the amount of compensation that can be awarded37.

How long an investigation takes

Timings vary by scheme and by the work the case needs. Guidance on ombudsman complaints says a complaint can take a few months38. The Pensions Ombudsman says complaints needing a formal investigation are likely to take more than 18 months39. The Financial Ombudsman Service handles a high volume of cases and aims to resolve many sooner, but a case that needs a full investigation takes longer.

The firm has up to eight weeks to reply, and the referral window is usually six months from the final response.

Where to get free help

Several organisations help people complain without charge. The Financial Ombudsman Service itself is free for consumers2. MoneyHelper offers guidance on banking and joint accounts2. Citizens Advice sets out how to check whether a financial service has followed the rules3. Which? publishes step-by-step guidance on complaining about an insurance company and on taking a complaint to an ombudsman40. The Financial Ombudsman Service also publishes what consumers can expect from it26.

For someone managing money for another person, Scope has guidance on managing money for someone else6. The Government's page on nominating someone to collect State Pension explains how a third party can be given access to an account, for example with a second card41. Mental Health and Money Advice covers managing money during a hospital stay42. The Financial Services Compensation Scheme explains how a personal representative can act without a fee27.

If the complaint is about a scam, the Payment Systems Regulator says that if you are unhappy with the response from the firm, you can take the matter further by referring it to the Financial Ombudsman Service43. If the complaint is about how an organisation has handled personal data, the Information Commissioner's Office has its own complaint route, and organisations can also complain to it if they disagree with the outcome of a complaint44.

Sources44 cited
  1. How to complain Financial Ombudsman Service, 2026-09-25
  2. Joint accounts MoneyHelper, 2026-09-25
  3. Check if a financial service has followed the rules Citizens Advice, 2026-09-25
  4. Compensation Financial Ombudsman Service, 2026-10-01
  5. FSCS: are my savings safe? Which?, 2025-12-01
  6. Managing money for someone else Scope, 2026-09-26
  7. Power of attorney Financial Ombudsman Service, 2026-09-26
  8. Subsidence and ground movement Financial Ombudsman Service, 2026-09-26
  9. Individual savings accounts (ISAs) Financial Ombudsman Service, 2026-09-26
  10. I think I've been mis-sold a financial product Which?, 2026-08-18
  11. Complaints about commission Financial Ombudsman Service, 2025-12-05
  12. Credit hire and credit repair services Financial Ombudsman Service, 2026-09-16
  13. Claims management company leaflet Claims Management Ombudsman, 2026-09-27
  14. Credit union current accounts MoneyHelper, 2026-09-25
  15. Debt collection Financial Ombudsman Service, 2026-09-27
  16. ADR activity report 2021-22 Financial Ombudsman Service, 2026-09-28
  17. Savings endowments Financial Ombudsman Service, 2026-09-27
  18. Personal pensions Financial Ombudsman Service, 2026-09-26
  19. Interest-only mortgages Financial Ombudsman Service, 2026-09-26
  20. Unaffordable lending Financial Ombudsman Service, 2026-09-26
  21. Goods and services bought on credit Financial Ombudsman Service, 2026-09-25
  22. Complaints that involve gambling-related harm Financial Ombudsman Service, 2026-09-26
  23. Unregulated collective investment schemes Financial Ombudsman Service, 2026-09-26
  24. Wedding insurance Financial Ombudsman Service, 2026-09-27
  25. How we make decisions Financial Ombudsman Service, 2026-09-27
  26. What to expect Financial Ombudsman Service, 2026-07-24
  27. Personal representative Financial Services Compensation Scheme, 2026-09-25
  28. ADR and funding Financial Ombudsman Service, 2026-09-27
  29. Couple complains after their insurer took too long to repair damages Financial Ombudsman Service, 2026-09-26
  30. Interest on compensation awards Financial Ombudsman Service, 2026-09-26
  31. Review of the Financial Ombudsman Service House of Commons Library, 2026-07-08
  32. Review of the Financial Ombudsman Service consultation HM Government, 2026-05-20
  33. Repaying student loans more quickly and getting refunds nidirect, 2026-06-04
  34. Payday loans Business Debtline, 2026-09-26
  35. Employee expenses TaxAid, 2026-02-16
  36. Council tax arrears Business Debtline, 2026-09-26
  37. How to complain to an ombudsman Which?, 2026-07-30
  38. Crisis payments Shelter England, 2026-06-25
  39. How we handle complaints The Pensions Ombudsman, 2026
  40. How to complain about your insurance company Which?, 2025-09-10
  41. Nominate someone to collect State Pension GOV.UK, 2026-09-26
  42. How do I manage my money if I have to go into hospital? Mental Health and Money Advice, 2026-09-26
  43. If you've fallen victim to a scam Payment Systems Regulator, 2026-09-25
  44. Data protection framework Information Commissioner's Office, 2026-09-26

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Frequently asked questions

Can I complain to a bank on behalf of my elderly parent?

Yes. You can make a formal complaint to the bank's customer services for them, and the firm has eight weeks to investigate and give a final response. If that does not resolve it, the complaint can go to the free Financial Ombudsman Service. A friend, family member or support worker can help with the complaint or speak on the person's behalf, and you do not need to be a lawyer or a paid representative to do it.

Does a third-party mandate let me deal with someone else's bank account?

A third-party mandate lets you access and operate someone's bank or building society account, and most banks and building societies allow this, often through a second card. It is limited, though: you cannot transfer a third-party mandate to another account or bank. If the person needs someone to make wider decisions, a power of attorney is the usual route, and the two are not the same thing.

How long does the person have to refer a complaint to the ombudsman?

The firm's final response letter tells them how long they have, and the usual window is six months from that letter. If they miss it, the ombudsman can still look at the complaint but will ask the company whether it agrees the complaint can be investigated further. It is worth checking the letter rather than assuming the deadline has passed.

Does it cost anything to use the Financial Ombudsman Service?

No. The Financial Ombudsman Service is free for consumers, and bringing a complaint to it will not cost anything. You also do not need to pay anyone to represent you, such as a lawyer or a claims management company. A family member, friend or support worker can help with the complaint at no charge.

Can I use AI to help fill in the ombudsman complaint form?

The ombudsman publishes guidelines on using AI before you start its complaint form. It asks people to avoid entering personal information they would not want shared, such as health or banking information, to use AI only to help organise information or put it clearly, and to check the resulting text carefully. The complaint still has to be accurate and the person's own.

Can we go to court if we disagree with the ombudsman's decision?

Neither side can appeal an ombudsman's final decision to another ombudsman or to court just because they disagree with it. If the person accepts the final decision, it becomes legally binding on both parties. If they do not accept it, they are not bound by it, and the firm is not either, so the dispute can be pursued another way.

Is tax taken off compensation or interest paid after a complaint?

It depends on what the payment is for. Where a student loan overpayment is refunded, interest is paid at the same rate as it is charged to the account and is tax free. In payday loan refunds, the ombudsman can add an extra 8% interest on top of the interest and charges being refunded. Tax treatment varies, so it is worth checking the specific payment.

How long does an ombudsman investigation take?

It varies by scheme and by how much work the case needs. Guidance on ombudsman complaints says a complaint can take a few months. The Pensions Ombudsman says complaints needing a formal investigation are likely to take more than 18 months. The Financial Ombudsman Service aims to sort out many complaints sooner, but a case that needs a full investigation takes longer.